Realizations

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Five things I realized:

1. Grandpa Bordes' death affected me more than i realize

2. Grandpa Sjoblom's death affected me very deeply

3. My fathers death has not been dealt with appropriately and I never grieved

4. My failed marriage made me realize how quickly i jump into relationships and that there is no such thing as security.

5. My lack of discipline in choosing a career has kept me from being a happy person.

Until next time....
I am just a guy in the world, trying to do right by others. I feed the homeless, love watching movies and reading. Hiking and cycling are my two favorite things in the world. I love great conversation and tend to be interested in many things. Open to conversation: https://m.me/cbordes71

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